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Nigerian Lady ends her 7 month marriage and calls out her husband because he refuses to post her online after marriage

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Nigerian Lady ends her 7 month marriage and calls out her husband because he refuses to post her online after marriage
Nigerian Lady ends her 7 month marriage and calls out her husband because he refuses to post her online after marriage
Nigerian Lady ends her 7 month marriage and calls out her husband because he refuses to post her online after marriage

Nigerian lady, Hazel Ajuamiwe, opens up about her tumultuous 7-month marriage and calls out her ex-husband for being ashamed to show her off. She shares heartbreaking details of mistreatment and emotional abuse.

Hazel reveals that her ex-husband married her for selfish reasons and constantly belittled her. He would compare her to his exes, ridicule her appearance, and insist on makeup for every outing. His actions left her feeling unworthy and insecure.

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The mistreatment continued as Hazel was pregnant. Her ex-husband showed no empathy and even distanced himself from her in public. He insulted her and made hurtful comments, undermining her self-worth. It’s heartbreaking to hear about such emotional pain.

Hazel also shares incidents where her ex-husband disrespected and demeaned her, including waking her up at 4 am to berate her for seeking support from her sister-in-law. His words and actions were deeply hurtful, causing immense emotional distress.

Despite the trauma, Hazel is reclaiming her voice and finding her way back to herself. She bravely speaks out, sharing her story to raise awareness about emotional abuse. Her strength and resilience are inspiring. We stand with Hazel in her journey towards healing and self-love.

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She wrote;

“This is one of the many pictures that never got posted because he wanted to maintain his single status on Facebook but claimed that it was for security reasons and he wanted us to maintain our privacy.

“I am a very private person; so I believed him until I realized that we were not on the same page.
Besides marrying me for selfish reasons; he was ashamed of me…a whole spec like me
He constantly told me how his exes looked and would randomly post their pictures and talk about their skin and how he wanted me to look better so when they see me, they’d know that he upgraded.
He ridiculed my dressing and wanted me to wear makeup for every outing; no matter how brief. In his words, ‘I don’t want you to give me any reason to look at another woman.’
He didn’t care that I was struggling with a new pregnancy. Even when I made effort; he will ‘forget’ to tell me that I looked beautiful.
“One time; he came to the bank to meet me and we went to the supermarket to get groceries. Dude tried so hard to act like he didn’t know me and we were not together.
When I introduced him to the manager, he had a scowl on his face. I didn’t notice initially until I called him ‘baby’ and he ignored me. I called him ‘baby’ again and he scolded me…”see how you’re just saying baby baby.”
“All the other places we went to, he stayed very far from me and was on the phone the whole time, I still haven’t found the words to describe how I felt that day. I survived… But the night he woke me up at 4am (I was more than 6 months pregnant) to cuss me out for telling my sister in law how he was treating me; he made sure to tell me how I was nothing and didn’t measure up to the women in his life.
Nigerian lady calls out ex-husband who was ashamed to show her off

“He said, “do you know the kind of women I left to marry you, you this thing.” He went on to call me many more unprintable names and added my sister in law to the insults.
Then he said, “my mother warned me about marrying an Umuahia woman (at this point I want to state that his mother died when he was 16), but I didn’t listen. I have asked questions and they told me that Umuahia women are domineering and evil.”
“Umuahia people, come and collect your sub…because the insults he gave Umuahia people is immense; yet he worships Nnamdi Kanu of IPOB who is from Umuahia and happens to be my second cousin. The following night; I woke from sleep to hear him on the phone with someone and he was telling this person how he doesn’t know how he married me because nothing about it made sense. He claimed that I held him down with some form of supernatural whatever and now that his eyes have cleared I had become repulsive to him and he couldn’t stand the sight of me.
“No wonder he had in a spate of abuse told me, ‘you can go and burn more bay leaves to tie my legs.’ I burn bay leaves occasionally to get rid of mosquitoes and pesky fruit flies instead of using insecticide. And burning bay leaves relaxes my nerves and makes me sleep better, so I didn’t understand what he said until I overheard that phone conversation. I was too numb to even cry…
He follows the likes of AllahKaduna who tell them that they’re alpha males and the prize…well, I was not in competition with anyone for anything so I removed myself from struggling for any prize biko.
“He loves to insult women on social media but is always in women’s inboxes asking for money…I lost count of how many women kept sending him money for only God knows what; and when I complained, he would say that I’m just being insecure…he still won’t pay any bills or buy anything for me or the house. The next time a random stranger told me I was beautiful; I was shocked to hear it. I had forgotten that I was beautiful because I was constantly belittled and demeaned by the one person who should have been praising me.
“It has been one joy ride finding my way back to myself…and right now my voice is stronger than ever.
7 months of marriage that felt like 7 years of torture…”

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“So you won’t greet me?” – Moment governor Sanwo Olu mets Mr Macaroni at Tony Elumelu’s all-white party

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saying that the sky was no limit to him.

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Taking to his Instagram page to share videos from the surprising moment,

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