Nigerian lady, Hazel Ajuamiwe, opens up about her tumultuous 7-month marriage and calls out her ex-husband for being ashamed to show her off. She shares heartbreaking details of mistreatment and emotional abuse.
Hazel reveals that her ex-husband married her for selfish reasons and constantly belittled her. He would compare her to his exes, ridicule her appearance, and insist on makeup for every outing. His actions left her feeling unworthy and insecure.
The mistreatment continued as Hazel was pregnant. Her ex-husband showed no empathy and even distanced himself from her in public. He insulted her and made hurtful comments, undermining her self-worth. It’s heartbreaking to hear about such emotional pain.
Hazel also shares incidents where her ex-husband disrespected and demeaned her, including waking her up at 4 am to berate her for seeking support from her sister-in-law. His words and actions were deeply hurtful, causing immense emotional distress.
Despite the trauma, Hazel is reclaiming her voice and finding her way back to herself. She bravely speaks out, sharing her story to raise awareness about emotional abuse. Her strength and resilience are inspiring. We stand with Hazel in her journey towards healing and self-love.
“This is one of the many pictures that never got posted because he wanted to maintain his single status on Facebook but claimed that it was for security reasons and he wanted us to maintain our privacy.
“I am a very private person; so I believed him until I realized that we were not on the same page.
Besides marrying me for selfish reasons; he was ashamed of me…a whole spec like me
He constantly told me how his exes looked and would randomly post their pictures and talk about their skin and how he wanted me to look better so when they see me, they’d know that he upgraded.
He ridiculed my dressing and wanted me to wear makeup for every outing; no matter how brief. In his words, ‘I don’t want you to give me any reason to look at another woman.’
He didn’t care that I was struggling with a new pregnancy. Even when I made effort; he will ‘forget’ to tell me that I looked beautiful.
“One time; he came to the bank to meet me and we went to the supermarket to get groceries. Dude tried so hard to act like he didn’t know me and we were not together.
When I introduced him to the manager, he had a scowl on his face. I didn’t notice initially until I called him ‘baby’ and he ignored me. I called him ‘baby’ again and he scolded me…”see how you’re just saying baby baby.”
“All the other places we went to, he stayed very far from me and was on the phone the whole time, I still haven’t found the words to describe how I felt that day. I survived… But the night he woke me up at 4am (I was more than 6 months pregnant) to cuss me out for telling my sister in law how he was treating me; he made sure to tell me how I was nothing and didn’t measure up to the women in his life.
Nigerian lady calls out ex-husband who was ashamed to show her off
“He said, “do you know the kind of women I left to marry you, you this thing.” He went on to call me many more unprintable names and added my sister in law to the insults.
Then he said, “my mother warned me about marrying an Umuahia woman (at this point I want to state that his mother died when he was 16), but I didn’t listen. I have asked questions and they told me that Umuahia women are domineering and evil.”
“Umuahia people, come and collect your sub…because the insults he gave Umuahia people is immense; yet he worships Nnamdi Kanu of IPOB who is from Umuahia and happens to be my second cousin. The following night; I woke from sleep to hear him on the phone with someone and he was telling this person how he doesn’t know how he married me because nothing about it made sense. He claimed that I held him down with some form of supernatural whatever and now that his eyes have cleared I had become repulsive to him and he couldn’t stand the sight of me.
“No wonder he had in a spate of abuse told me, ‘you can go and burn more bay leaves to tie my legs.’ I burn bay leaves occasionally to get rid of mosquitoes and pesky fruit flies instead of using insecticide. And burning bay leaves relaxes my nerves and makes me sleep better, so I didn’t understand what he said until I overheard that phone conversation. I was too numb to even cry…
He follows the likes of AllahKaduna who tell them that they’re alpha males and the prize…well, I was not in competition with anyone for anything so I removed myself from struggling for any prize biko.
“He loves to insult women on social media but is always in women’s inboxes asking for money…I lost count of how many women kept sending him money for only God knows what; and when I complained, he would say that I’m just being insecure…he still won’t pay any bills or buy anything for me or the house. The next time a random stranger told me I was beautiful; I was shocked to hear it. I had forgotten that I was beautiful because I was constantly belittled and demeaned by the one person who should have been praising me.
“It has been one joy ride finding my way back to myself…and right now my voice is stronger than ever.
7 months of marriage that felt like 7 years of torture…”
Video: “It was because of Davido you married Israel” – Blessing CEO blasts Sheila
Blessing CEO, the CEO of a popular Lagos-based skincare brand, has slammed Sheila, the estranged wife of Davido’s logistics manager, Israel DMW.
In a recent interview, Blessing accused Sheila of marrying Israel DMW
only because of his association with Davido.
“Sheila only married Israel because of Davido,” Blessing said.
“She didn’t love him. She was just using him to get close to Davido.”
Blessing went on to say that Sheila is a gold digger who is always looking for her next meal ticket.
“Sheila is a gold digger,” Blessing said. “She’s always looking for a man to take care of her.
She doesn’t care who he is, as long as he has money.”
Blessing’s comments come after Sheila accused Israel DMW of domestic violence.
Sheila has also claimed that Israel DMW is a fraud who has been using her and her family.
Israel DMW has denied all of Sheila’s allegations. He has said that Sheila is the one who is violent and
that she is making up stories about him in order to get money from him.
The couple is currently going through a bitter divorce, and it is unclear what will happen next.
“May the best man win” — Reactions as little boy combats his father for kissing his mum during photoshoot
A photo of a little boy fighting his father for kissing his mum during a photoshoot has gone viral, sparking a debate online.
In the photo, the little boy can be seen grabbing his father’s arm and
trying to pull him away from his mother.
The mother looks amused by the situation, while the father is laughing.
Some people have found the photo to be funny, while others have found it to be inappropriate.
“This is so cute!” one person wrote on Twitter.
“I can’t believe this kid is trying to fight his dad!” another person wrote.
However, others have criticized the parents for allowing their son to behave in this way.
“This is not okay,” one person wrote. “This child is learning that it’s okay to be aggressive.”
“This is so inappropriate,” another person wrote. “I can’t believe the parents are just laughing it off.”
It is important to remember that every child is different,
and what might be considered appropriate for one child might not be appropriate for another.
It is also important to consider the cultural context in which the photo was taken.
In some cultures, it is considered normal for children
to be more physically affectionate with their parents than in other cultures.
Ultimately, it is up to the parents to decide what is right for their child.
However, it is important to be mindful of the potential consequences of allowing a child
to behave in a way that could be seen as aggressive or inappropriate.
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“Christmas flexing don set” – Man dazes many as he shatters his piggy bank, calculates his money
A Nigerian man has gone viral on social media after he posted a video of himself breaking his piggy bank and counting his money.
The man, who has not been identified,
posted the video on TikTok with the caption: “Christmas flexing don set”.
In the video, the man can be seen carefully breaking open the piggy bank,
which is full of crumpled naira notes.
He then proceeds to count the money, and it is clear that he has saved up quite a bit.
The video has been viewed over a million times and has been met with mixed reactions from viewers.
Some people have praised the man for his discipline and saving habits,
while others have criticized him for showing off his wealth.
One person commented: “This is amazing! I wish I could save up like this.”
Another person commented: “Why is he flaunting his money like this? It’s not a good look.”
Regardless of the reactions, it is clear that the man’s video has struck a chord with people.
It is a reminder that with hard work and dedication, anything is possible.
It is also a reminder that money is not everything. True happiness comes from within.
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